Thursday, November 30, 2023

Dee-termed to See the Beauty Around Me

PLEASE JOIN ME IN LIFTING UP
THE HOSTAGES 
AND THEIR FAMILIES.
PLEASE LIFT UP 
ALL THE PEOPLE 
IN DANGER 
IN THE MIDDLE EAST 
AND PRAY FOR PEACE!
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This month I was blessed with a trip to 
visit my cousin and my son's extended family.
We had a delicious meal at 
I got to meet the artist Sarah Nilson, the creator of 
I purchased one of her one of a kind paintings!
My "Cuz" and I had fun in SOCO.
(Except for the back in parking!)
I went vintage clothing shopping.
Without knowing it I found the perfect shirt 
that I wore to a Cinco de Mayo themed 
Celebration of Life event.
I have wanted to see Barton Springs ever since 
seeing it on Instagram.
It is very pretty. 
But, I agree with a friend, 
it's a natural spring that
has become commercialized. 
Note: my cousin's cat is spoiled.
Check out his Cat-io where he can hang out safely outside.
Have you ever played Singo?
It's like Bingo but with song titles.
FUN!
(Didn't win tho...no #32!)
In my search for an '80s 
faire isle sweater
I've seen many 
contenders,
but no winners.
Some came close,
but mainly Goldilocks hasn't 
found the right size.
So the search continues...

I saw more sparkly things.
More antiques.
More cool clothes.



I had some fuzzy friend moments, as usual.
I earned this Starbucks mocha.
(Every five years I have do a sh*tty procedure.)
I have a great thrifting buddy.
We find lots of amazing stuff for me 
to take to Phantom Lake YMCA Camp.
Our Thanksgiving was full of good food
with a wee bit of drama on the side.
Come on, someone else admit it,
did more than your kitchen get heated?
A VERY EXCITING EVENT 
TOOK PLACE THIS MONTH
IN THAILAND!
MY (HONORARY) BROTHER 
GOT MARRIED!!!!!
Family and friends watched via live video
FOR FOUR HOURS!
There was so much laughter!
I have been invited to come visit.
Hopeful to get over there to hug him and his beautiful bride.
Four hours is a long time...
but I loved every minute.
It's cold here but there's still people
who like getting in the chilly waters of 
Lake Michigan.
Not. Me.
Matter of fact I got blessed with a new to me
jacket from a friend who took it off her back
and gifted it to me! I love it!
Please tell me you know about Frango mints.
They are from Marshall Fields...well, Macy's now
and they are the best hostess gift ever.
(Hint, hint if you are ever coming over! HA!)
I love traveling.
I meet the most interesting people.
I also do advocacy work with my clothing and buttons.
It sparks converstations.
Another special treat I had was seeing my grandchild
and spending Diwali with her parents and their extended family.
Celebrating light and love was wonderful.
These mugs and books were my friend's. 
Sadly she died this month.
She was an amazing writer, artist, and creative.
She and I became pen pals when I moved away in 2011.
She would write about her newest cooking creation 
or the wildlife she was seeing on her walks
or outside her kitchen sink windows.
She would describe the people she met while thrifting
or grocery shopping. She'd tell me about her childhood.
We would text and talk on the phone.
Sometimes at 3 am!
This was when BOTH of us were recovering from fractured shoulders.
We shared hopes, dreams and failures.
We gave and took counsel to and from each other.
This woman knew stuff about me y'all don't know.
And I miss her.
She's the reason I am DEE-termined to live my life in gratitude,
noticing the little details of beauty around me.
It was an honor to help my friend's children clear out
items from their mother's home. 
It was also a privilege to take some of 
my friend's art supplies to my Y Camp. 
While I was in the Cleveland area 
I got to spend the night 
with my 3 Doors Down rocker friend.
This is one of my friends who loves the color orange.
Driving down to Worthington for the memorial
I stopped at Grandpa's Cheesebarn.
I also did some trespassing at a very special place.
And I visited with some more of my relatives. 
Back home in Illinois I've been enjoying 
the Creative Writing Club I'm in at 
the local Senior Center. 
One of the other writers and I went to Denny's for lunch.
The same exact restaurant I hung out at as a teen!
I think they were playing the same music!
Stevie Wonder, ABBA, Frankie Avalon, Pure Prairie League,
Hall and Oates, Al Stewart
ELO, and the Bee Gees. 
Enjoyable!
As you go about your lives I hope you will 
&
And if you washer and dryer bust 
I hope you get new ones
quicker than we did.
Just sayin'...
Let the snow begin!
I hope this holiday season is full of light and love
for you and your loved ones.
Hug 'em tight.
Tomorrow I am off to Colorado to visit friends.
One of my friends is directing a production of 
"It's a Wonderful Life" as a radio show. 
I'm excited to see them, the play and mountains!
Peace be with you and yours.
The terrors happening across the ocean tear at my heart.
Let us all be grateful for any joys in our lives.
You are all dear to me,
Jen Pen

12 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing your colorful adventures! The music jacket and fiber-arts blazer are so apropos! 💗

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  2. Thank you for sharing!! ♥️

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  3. What fun! What treasures! What treasured memories of your friend. So sorry for your loss. Your post was just what I needed to remember…
    JSJ

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  4. your life is so full of beauty!

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  5. Usually I get bowled over by da blog, but this month being able to share with you in the bitter & sweet of life, you bring me into the exhilaration of riding life's wave crests & vallies!

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  6. You are an absolute riot Jen
    So grateful to know you and live life (vicariously) through you!! Fun and sweet and blessed and present for it all🎭💖💫

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  7. Such fun going treasure hunting with you! Love seeing all the goodies you found on our trips as well as others. Looking forward to more adventures with you Jen!

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  8. Beautiful memories that celebrate your wonderful friendships. And some Snoopys too. What could be better! Keep enjoying life as you do. We are all reminded how short our time on this earth is.❤️

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  9. You are an INCREDIBLE person and live an amazing life. You see the beauty and wonderment in everything AND inspire everyone to to realize just how TRULY AMAZING OUR LIVES ARE...IF WE CHOOSE TO VIEW THEM AND PAY ATTENTION!! I have known you since we were little kids and I feel SOOOO LUCKY to have someone like you in my life in ANY WAY!!! I just love you !!! The best to you ALWAYS on all that life has to offer!!! HAPPY HOLIDAY to you and yours!!! XOXOXO. :) :) :)

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  10. Thanks for sharing your ongoing story. So fun to see your adventures. Loved seeing you and spending time with you in Worthington. Enjoy the holidays and Colorado. There’s so much to be thankful for, isn’t there?!

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  11. You're a woman on the move!!
    Be safe in Colorado, we don't want any (more) injuries, you have beach destinations to keep in mind! 😁
    Love all the photos, your Cinco de mayo shirt, and that cool jacket with headphones and guitars!
    Frango mints....oh how I love thee!!
    So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend...

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